What does it mean to have a second chance? Is it possible to have a second chance at love? I thought my feelings for my ex were behind me but now I’m not so sure. I spent some time with him this weekend and honestly I feel like nothing has changed between us even though we havent spent time together in months. I don’t want to have a casual relationship with anyone because it’s just not worth the effort. I refuse to put myself in a position where i put all my focus on my ex again. We don’t work together anymore and I finally have a chance to move on. I let myself go against my promise and contact him the other night. I don’t plan on doing that again if I can help it. I want to be friends with him but I don’t need to be sucked back in to the same situation we were in before.